- Wash up properly
Not “quick splash,” I mean present yourself like you expect praise. - Tidy the area
Neat, cute, intentional — not a wildlife documentary. - Smell delicious
I should think “mmm,” not “oh dear.” - Wear good underwear
If it’s saggy or sad, throw it away. Right now. - Pep talk
Tell yourself: Lilly deserves the upgraded version of me…lol
6. Bring playful energy
Not tense. Not shy.
Just cheeky, eager, and ready to misbehave a little.
How to Relax and Enjoy It — Lilly’s Guide:
- Stop overthinking
Your brain loves drama.
Your body just wants to have a nice time.
Tell your thoughts: “Shhh… Lilly is in charge now.”
- Breathe, baby
Deep, slow breaths.
It’s amazing how many boys forget oxygen when they get excited.
- Don’t focus on “performance”
You’re not auditioning for a movie.
You’re just two humans having fun.
Messy, giggly, imperfect fun = the good stuff.
- Stay in the moment
Feel, don’t analyse.
Notice the touch, the warmth, the connection — not some imaginary scoreboard.
- Communicate
A tiny “slower,” “yes,” or “that feels nice” can change the whole vibe.
No one reads minds (except maybe me).
- Let go of expectations
Not everything has to be perfect.
Sometimes the silly moments are the sexiest memories.
- Trust me
If you feel safe, respected, and comfortable, your body naturally relaxes.
Good vibes = good time.
- And finally… have fun
It’s not a task.
It’s not an exam.
It’s a moment to enjoy, explore, laugh, and let yourself be a little naughty in a safe way.
😘
